Sunday, January 3, 2021

Happy 15th Birthday Sophie.

 Sophie was such a challenge as a puppy.  She came to us at 16 months old, with a history of poor treatment and we were her seventh home.  To say she was crazy is probably an understatement and now that I've spent so much time studying trauma I can see that her poor little brain and psyche was quite traumatised.  I came to love her and who would have imagined that it would come down to just Sophie and I, a little family of two.  She has been such a blessing and I'm so grateful for her company. She is doing very well for 15 and is such a happy girl. 








I hope you've all had a healthy and happy time during this strange festive season is such an unusual year. xxx


Monday, November 2, 2020

Backyard Harvest

 My tomatoes continue to produce prolifically.  I've picked over four kilos of cherry tomatoes in the past week.  They have a delicious flavour and it is such a joy to simply wander out the laundry door and pick what I need for dinner. With the excess, because really just how many tomatoes can Sophie and I eat, I am doing a tomato run today and dropping off bags full to neighbours and family. 





 Yesterday's harvest. I stopped picking when my large salad bowl was full.

 A large green tree frog lives in a bucket tucked within the tomatoes and in an effort to provide him/her with a better living environment and as I move to expand the biodiversity of my little yard, I am building a frog hotel to place near the clothes line.  I'll do another post of the process and finished product once I have gathered the materials and am ready to start.

My Chinese greens continue to flourish as do my herbs, lettuce and citrus.  I'm endlessly amazed at how much food I can grow for myself in such a small space and I really could grow more as I'm not utilising the space as effectively as I could. I've been restricted by finances and time really. Now that uni has finished I plan to make gradual progress to expand my garden to include more food and to purposely integrate flowering plants to bring in butterflies and insects both for the pleasure of having them in my garden and for their role in pollination and pest control. 

Sandy xx

Friday, October 23, 2020

Two posts in one day....uni must be finished.


 Oh my, I have certainly proved that I have this superpower. Disrespected, depersonalised, degraded, abused, mentally tortured. It takes a long time to heal from it no matter how calm you are in the face of it.

Rachel's Birthday

 We celebrated my niece Rachel's 15th birthday a few days ago.  She's a darling girl and so very loved.  I wish that the world is kind to her and that she is always surrounded by love.

Rachel hates chocolate so was very excited by this rainbow cake that my sister got for her.  It was terribly sweet so I shared mine with the dog! :)

Here she is oh so long ago, painting in my old studio.

Not so long ago on a special day out with me at the hairdressers where she enjoyed being pampered (having autism means Rachel struggles with the sensation of washing her hair so this was a BIG day).

💗


Sunday, October 4, 2020

Love Has Many Faces

What a beautiful day today has been. Sophie and I sat on the back deck and watched the dawn as it gently rose between the trees. We played in the garden and then I headed into the kitchen to prepare lunch for some family and friends.   My sister came with her two children. My friends Heilala and Mario came with their daughter Serena, Heilala's mum Joyce and cousin Ma'ata (both from Tonga).  Also in attendance were my friends Susana and Rodrigo.  Around my table sat people from Spain, Uruguay, Argentina, Tonga, Tonga, Tonga/New Zealand/Australia.  So many different faces, languages and customs yet such similar hearts and souls.  Kindness, love and friendship are the same in any language.  This is how it should be.


Our two beautiful tomato pickers in my wild, rambling cherry tomatoes.  Miss Serena and Miss Rachel, who is now taller than her mother and I.  Gorgeous girls.

Another lovely event this week has been the birthday of my eldest nephew.  You may remember our little red head from long ago blog posts.

Well, he turned old enough to get his learners this week so he's driving and has grown in to such a level headed, good natured young man.  We are still so close and that is so very special to me.  As I tell him, I'll always love him past the last star....

 

Sorry, I completely forgot to take photos of our gathering today. 


Monday, August 24, 2020

Watched Over and Busy

Life is pretty busy at the moment.  I've recently had to replace my car due to a catastrophic failure of two major components of my X-trail. Other than sounding a little different (which is why I took it to the mechanic), nothing seemed wrong.  I was quite shocked when the manager came out and told me that it was unsafe to drive and it's a miracle that I hadn't been killed or badly injured.  Thanking my lucky stars there. The lady in the waiting room with me remarked that 'someone was watching over you', and she may well be right. Within 3 days I had a new-to-me little car that I'm actually really loving.  It is so easy to get Sophie into as well so getting her to the vet is easier and taking her out to the dog park or beach is possible again. Further to my good fortune, my little car was 7 years old with 41000kms on the odometer.  How awesome is that!

Sophie has been spending her days lying in the sun sleeping...

You can see her industriously dug holes behind her. Grrrr.

She has also been licking her paw constantly so I've resorted to making her wear a sock, which seems to be working so far.  The cone of shame stops her licking but she can only walk backwards in it which is hilarious but not great for her.  She's getting older but still as cute as a button.


 

Uni is entering the stage of semester where assessments all seem to come due at once and class content seems to increase simultaneously.  At present I'm researching the efficacy of using art therapy to promote positive mental health outcomes for children hospitalised in paediatric wards.  It's a very interesting area and is something that I may be able to do my Masters and PhD research on.  In addition to my Masters I am also studying to be a Clinical Play Therapist.  This is done through a private training organisation and will be completed by November.  Having a background in education I am loving this are of therapeutic intervention.  I have three full days of training this week as well as a written assessment for uni.  I seem to read, write and nap at present with very little in between! :) 

I made a huge pot of vegetable and herb soup on the weekend to help get me through the busy week.  Most of the veggies came from either my garden or my Mum's which I love.  I don't know why I was surprised but the soup was delicious.  

My brother and I faced the cold winds and went to the local markets on Sunday morning.  We were both after seedlings for our vegetable gardens.  It was a beautiful day even though it was chilly and I particularly loved how quiet the markets were. I managed to get a good assortment of seedlings for $9 and came home and filled the empty spots in my veggie garden as well as underplanting my potted dwarf citrus trees with the remaining herbs and chinese vegetables.  At least Sophie and I won't starve.
There are so many very healthy plants at the market and for such good prices.  My garden is already well landscaped and easy to care for. It needs no more ornamental or landscaping plants so for now I am focusing on growing food in pots and in a raised garden.  Growing your own food is such a pleasurable thing to do. It is such a joy to be able to provide food for yourself and to be able to generously share with neighbours and loved ones, even if you have little money.  People always leave here with a posy of herbs and a few cherry tomatoes or whatever else is ready from the garden.  Such a good feeling.  My garden gives me such feelings of peace, happiness, security and abundance.

Stay well and happy everyone and if you don't hear from me over the next week or so it's because I am sitting here with my head in the books.  :)

Sandy xx

Monday, August 17, 2020

Repairing myself with gold.....

Kintsukuroi, "to repair with gold", the art of repairing pottery ... 

Today I was reflecting on just how beautifully my university studies, my art, my meditation, journal writing, and other self-care practices are intertwining and integrating so naturally and powerfully to heal me. To 'put me back together' but in a form that while familiar is so much more beautiful and powerful than I ever was before.  I am loving this time immensely and so very, very grateful.